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近来，有关在地铁上哺乳的照片以及相关的评论颇有点纷纷扬扬。其实，这算是什么事，居然拍照者还说什么不能暴露性器官。他懂得什么叫性器官吗？如此满嘴跑舌头，也真是奇葩了。记得冯梦龙写过这么一段故事，忘是在《今古奇观》里还是在《三言两拍》里的了。说有一个婴儿的母亲，是个少妇。出外坐船。在船上为婴儿哺乳，被一无赖子看到。后来那无赖告到官府，说这少妇是他的老婆。那官府便问，你的证据在哪里，无赖子说，那少妇一侧乳下有一黑痣。官府找人一验，果然。于是不问青红皂白，硬把少妇判给无赖。后来又经反复曲折，才算还了那少妇清白，回归自家。这个故事至少告诉我们这么一件事，即在明朝时代，在公众面前哺乳也是常有的事，从来没有人少见多怪。那是什么时代？那是封建时代，是大姑娘小媳妇大门不出二门不迈的时代。可是，即使在这样的时代，母亲哺乳也是天经地义的事情，没有人指其为有伤风化。说来也怪，过去了在农村，看到有不少中年以上的妇女，到天气溽热的时候，都光着膀子，两个乳房干瘪着，搭拉在胸前。村里的男女老少，看到这样的情景都习以为常，没有什么大惊小怪的。男人自不必说，从小到老，在那样的天气里，一律都光膀子。后来北京人称此类人物为“膀爷”。这是有伤风化，还是不文明？也真不好说。近些年来，北京曾经的膀爷减少了不少。据说是因为有媒体指责这样的情景，指责为不文明。我想到另外一件事，西方某发达国家的女性曾经为当地政府不允许女性光膀子提出抗议，说这是性别歧视。言外之意是，为什么男人可以赤裸着上身，而女性却不可能。当地政府的说词是女性如果赤裸上身，则是有伤风化。对这样的说词，当地女性表示不满，有的甚至干脆光着膀子上街，表达自己的抗议和不满。这到底什么是文明，什么是不文明，还真不容易说清楚。中国古代算是文明还是不文明。女性坐不露膝，笑不露齿，这是文明还是封建？可是允许女性在公众场哺乳而不必受到责罚，这是反封建还是不文明？中国的下层人民，无论男女，特别是在农村，天热时光着膀子十分正常。大热天干农活，穿戴多一点，就热得不行，几乎中暑。你还非得要求人家不能裸露上身，这是不是有点不讲道理，强人所难？过去的年月，普通人家既没空调，也没电扇，只靠着大蒲扇降温，还不允许人家光膀子，这个要求有点人道主义吗？发达国家女性抗议对女性的这种约束，至少说明他们那里对男性没有提出过这类的要求。可是在咱们这儿，不要说女性了，连男性光膀子也要禁止，说这样不文明。如果说，光着膀子挤公交车，挤地铁，或者在商场里的人堆里挤来挤去，确实不文明。可是人家在自家门口，在胡同里坐着，没招谁没惹谁，凭什么要求人家必须不准赤裸着上身？这是不是有点过分？什么叫有伤风化？这有没有一个精准的定义，有没有一个公认的定义？好像没有听说过。可能让大姑娘小媳妇在大街着光着膀子，别说不好看，连人家本主也不见得喜欢这样做。但说起给孩子喂奶，这当妈的谁不心疼自己的孩子，谁乐意让自己的孩子饿得嗷嗷直哭，愣为那么一点面子让孩子受委屈？几乎没有这样的母亲。所以在地铁上给哺乳的母亲拍照，还指责人家这个那个的，简直就不是个人，而是个伪君子、道学家，甚至是某种变态。他愣能把乳房说成是性器官，这不是变态还能是什么？现在既然提供母乳喂养，各公共场所能提供母婴哺乳室当然更好，但这肯定不可能绝对方便。那就对母亲随时随地给孩子喂奶当成最自然不过的事吧。您要觉得不好看，你就不看便是了。您要是觉得新鲜，忍不住多看两眼，那就看上两眼，别动别的心眼也就过去了。装模作样，假模假式地批评、指责，只能说明这样的人心理相当阴暗，比那多看两眼的人更不是个东西。现代社会当然需要文明，文明也不代表着封建。其实，所谓文明，也没有那么复杂，只是每个人在公共场合的言行，不要影响和妨碍别人，不给别人带来困扰，就都可以算是文明行为了。随地吐痰不文明，因为影响到别人的健康和环境卫生。满世界吐口香糖不文明，因为也是影响到环境卫生，给他人带来困扰。说话粗鲁，气大声高也不文明，因为影响到环境的安静和他人的心情。可是给孩子喂奶招谁惹谁了？光着膀子在自家门口坐着招谁惹谁了？那种虚伪的道学家最让人恶心了。
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