孩子如何选择一所好的大学？_百度知道
孩子如何选择一所好的大学？
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衡量一个学校教育质量的好坏。他们之所以有那么高的高考升学率和上线率！ 如果你的孩子真实的学习成绩比我说的这些条件还差一点儿。怎样为你的孩子选择一所最适合他就读的学校（要知道，最好的不一定非得是重点学校。最适合的才是最好的，对你的孩子的成长和学习才是最有利的）：只有最适合你的孩子就读的学校才是最好的学校，我个人认为相对适合孩子进入的高中阶段的学校应该是以孩子自己的真实成绩能排在你想让孩子进入的这所学校的录取分数线至少靠中游的位置（能靠前一些当然更好），比较理想的是能位于这所学校的所有考生的前百分之二三十以内的位置或所进入班级的前10－15名以内，而不必在意这所学校是不是重点，属于特别优秀的那一类孩子，那不妨在小学阶段最迟在初中阶段就给他选择一所条件比较好的学校，又能顺顺利利平平安安的从这所学校毕业，不论孩子能否考上大学，考上一本线，比同龄孩子的学习基础好很多。有一个教育的误区，可以说我们的整个社会以及几乎所有的家长和孩子都深陷其中并深受其害。有关重点学校和一般学校的关系问题，归根结底就是你的孩子究竟是适合上什么学校好的问题，决不能苛求孩子要达到什么什么水平，要求孩子一定要考上什么什么学校，否则很可能不但连你想要达到的目标都达不到反而还会适得其反，能上什么学校就上什么学校。孩子能快快乐乐的进入一所新的学校，只要毕业后在社会上能自食其力，不惹事生非，做父母的还有什么不满足的吗？ 如果你确实觉得你的孩子天资聪颖，我们不应该只看它对外公布的升学率是多高为孩子选择一所好学校以便让孩子受到最好的教育是每个家长梦寐以求的目标。 从有利于孩子成长及学习成绩的稳定提高的角度上而言、二本线的比例有多少；等于1说明进入该校学习的学生在学业上没有取得什么进步，教学质量平平过；如果小于1则表明这个学校的教学质量很差，进入该校学习的学生的学习成绩同比下降了。重点学校的教学质量和一般学校的教学质量其实并没有什么本质上的差别，只是因为它的生源质量高，是因为它垄断了高质量的中考生源，而更应该看它的出口质量（高考的成绩）和它的入口质量（进入这个学校的生源质量即中考成绩和中考排名）之比。这个比值大于1，则表明进入该校学习的学生学习成绩提高了，学校的教育质量比较高。请记住，不要说重点了，就连一般学校的中游水平都达不到，那就顺其自然。当然前提是他的学习成绩应该在你为孩子所选择的这个学校的同龄孩子中名列前茅，而在高中阶段就完全没有必要花钱去择校了。 所以说，做父母的一定要有一颗平常心
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我们会通过消息、邮箱等方式尽快将举报结果通知您。孩子在家学习认真，但到学校就表现不好，考试都不答完题，该怎样办？_百度知道
孩子在家学习认真，但到学校就表现不好，考试都不答完题，该怎样办？
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说教的太多，吵啊，骂啊等，给孩子一种心理负担，他就会形成这种就算是一种自我保护吧。要和孩子像朋友一样随和的交谈沟通，不要太过忧虑，多数孩子会有这样的时候，不过呢，我是这样认为的：这一部分原因在孩子，更重要的原因还是在家长，在我们自己。望子成龙父母心切啊，都会对孩子太严厉你好，让孩子放松心里没有压力的表现自我。试试吧，不过说起来容易，做却难噢
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刚上学吧，没事，孩子成熟情况不一致，现在上学时间有早，耐心告诉他，慢慢就会好的．我遇到过这样的孩子，现在已经很好了．
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多和他沟通，看看是不是孩子心里有事，多倾听，少责备
应该要好好监督
你的孩子就在学校对老师有意见 或者自己心里在学校收了什么委屈，或者是你孩子内向 害怕考试，从孩子自身找原因 多和他交流
The Thirsty Pigeon口渴的鸽子
A PIGEON, oppressed by excessive thirst, saw a goblet of water
painted on a signboard. Not supposing it to be only a picture,
she flew towards it with a loud whir and unwittingly dashed
against the signboard, jarring herself terribly. Having broken
her wings by the blow, she fell to the ground, and was caught by
one of the bystanders.
Zeal should not outrun discretion.
有只鸽子口渴得很难受，看见画板上画着一个水瓶，以为是真的。他立刻呼呼地猛飞过 去，不料一头碰撞在画板上，折断了翅膀，摔在地上，被人轻易地捉住了。
这是说，有些人想急于得到所需的东西，一时冲动，草率从事，就会身遭不幸。
The Raven and the Swan乌鸦和天鹅
A RAVEN saw a Swan and desired to secure for himself the same
beautiful plumage. Supposing that the Swan's splendid white
color arose from his washing in the water in which he swam, the
Raven left the altars in the neighborhood where he picked up his
living, and took up residence in the lakes and pools. But
cleansing his feathers as often as he would, he could not change
their color, while through want of food he perished.
Change of habit cannot alter Nature.
乌鸦非常羡慕天鹅洁白的羽毛。他猜想天鹅一定是经常洗澡，羽毛才变得如此洁白无 瑕。于是，他毅然离开了他赖以生存的祭坛，来到江湖边。他天天洗刷自己的羽毛，不但一 点都没洗白，反而因缺少食物饥饿而死。
这故事是说，人的本性不会随着生活方式的改变而改变。
The Goat and the Goatherd 山羊与牧羊人
A GOATHERD had sought to bring back a stray goat to his flock.
He whistled and soun the straggler paid no
attention to the summons. At last the Goatherd threw a stone,
and breaking its horn, begged the Goat not to tell his master.
The Goat replied, &Why, you silly fellow, the horn will speak
though I be silent.&
Do not attempt to hide things which cannot be hid.
很多山羊被牧羊人赶到羊圈里。有一只山羊不知在吃什么好东西，单独落在后面。牧羊 人拿起一块石头扔了过去，正巧打断了山羊的一只角。牧羊人吓得请求山羊不要告诉主人， 山羊说：“即使我不说，又怎能隐瞒下去呢？我的角已断了，这是十分明显的事实。”
这故事说明，明显的罪状是无法隐瞒的。
The Miser守财奴
A MISER sold all that he had and bought a lump of gold, which he
buried in a hole in the ground by the side of an old wall and
went to look at daily. One of his workmen observed his frequent
visits to the spot and decided to watch his movements. He soon
discovered the secret of the hidden treasure, and digging down,
came to the lump of gold, and stole it. The Miser, on his next
visit, found the hole empty and began to tear his hair and to
make loud lamentations. A neighbor, seeing him overcome with
grief and learning the cause, said, &P but
go and take a stone, and place it in the hole, and fancy that the
gold is still lying there. It will do you qui for when the gold was there, you had it not, as you did
not make the slightest use of it.&
有个守财奴变卖了他所有的家产，换回了金块，并秘密地埋在一个地方。他每天走去看 看他的宝藏。有个在附近放羊的牧人留心观察，知道了真情，趁他走后，挖出金块拿走了。 守财奴再来时，发现洞中的金块没有了，便捶胸痛哭。有个人见他如此悲痛，问明原因后， 说道：“喂，朋友，别再难过了，那块金子虽是你买来的，但并不是你真正拥有的。去拿一 块石头来，代替金块放在洞里，只要你心里想着那是块金子，你就会很高兴。这样与你拥有 真正的金块效果没什么不同。依我之见，你拥有那金块时，也从没用过。”
这故事说明，一切财物如不使用等于没有。The Wolf and the Lamb 狼与小羊WOLF, meeting with a Lamb astray from the fold, resolved not to lay violent hands on him, but to find some plea to justify to the Lamb the Wolf's right to eat him. He thus addressed him:&Sirrah, last year you grossly insulted me.& &Indeed,& bleated the Lamb in a mournful tone of voice, &I was not then born.& Then said the Wolf , &You feed in my pasture.& &No, good sir,& replied the Lamb, &I have not yet tasted grass.& Again said the Wolf, &You drink of my well.& &No,& exclaimed the Lamb, &I never yet drank water, for as yet my mother's milk is both food and drink to me.& Upon which the Wolf seized him and ate him up, saying, &Well! I won't remain supperless, even though you refute every one of my imputations.&The tyrant will always find a pretext for his tyranny.
一只小羊在河边喝水，狼见到后，便想找一个名正言顺的借口吃掉他。于是他跑到上游，恶狠狠地说小羊把河水搅浑浊了，使他喝不到清水。小羊回答说，他仅仅站在河边喝水，并且又在下游，根本不可能把上游的水搅浑。狼见此计不成，又说道：“我父亲去年被你骂过。”小羊说，那时他还没有出生。狼对他说：“不管你怎样辩解，反正我不会放过 你。”这说明，对恶人做任何正当的辩解也是无效的。The Bat and the Weasels蝙蝠与黄鼠狼A BAT who fell upon the ground and was caught by a Weasel pleaded to be spared his life. The Weasel refused, saying that he was by nature the enemy of all birds. The Bat assured him that he was not a bird, but a mouse, and thus was set free. Shortly afterwards the Bat again fell to the ground and was caught by another Weasel, whom he likewise entreated not to eat him. The Weasel said that he had a special hostility to mice. The Bat assured him that he was not a mouse, but a bat, and thus a second time escaped.It is wise to turn circumstances to good account. 蝙蝠掉落在地上，被黄鼠狼叼去，他请求饶命。黄鼠狼说绝不会放过他，自己生来痛恨鸟类。蝙蝠说他是老鼠，不是鸟，便被放了。后来蝙蝠又掉落了下来，被另一只黄鼠狼叼住，他再三请求不要吃他。这只黄鼠狼说他恨一切鼠类。蝙蝠改口说自己是鸟类，并非老 鼠，又被放了。这样，蝙蝠两次改变了自己的名字，终于死里逃生。 这故事说明，我们遇事要随机应变方能避免危险。
The Ass and the Grasshopper 驴子与蚱蜢
AN ASS having heard some Grasshoppers chirping,
and, desiring to possess the same charms of melody, demanded what sort of food they lived on to give them such beautiful voices. They replied, &The dew.& The Ass resolved that he would live only upon dew, and in a short time died of hunger. 驴子听见蚱蜢唱歌，被美妙动听的歌声所打动，自己也想能发出同样悦耳动听的声音，便 羡慕地问他们吃些什么，才能发出如此美妙的声音来。蚱蜢答道：“吃露水。”驴子便也只吃露水，没多久就饿死了。这个故事告诉人们不要企望非份之物。 The Lion and the Mouse 狮子与报恩的老鼠 A LION was awakened from sleep by a Mouse running over his face. Rising up angrily, he caught him and was about to kill him, when the Mouse piteously entreated, saying: &If you would only spare my life, I would be sure to repay your kindness.& The Lion laughed and let him go. It happened shortly after this that the Lion was caught by some hunters, who bound him by strong ropes to the ground. The Mouse, recognizing his roar, came and gnawed the rope with his teeth and set him free, exclaiming:
&You ridiculed the idea of my ever being able to help you, expecting to receive from me any rep now you know that it is possible for even a Mouse to con benefits on a Lion.& 狮子睡着了，有只老鼠跳到了他身上。狮子猛然站起来，把他抓住，准备吃掉。老鼠请求饶命，并说如果保住性命，必将报恩，狮子轻蔑地笑了笑，便把他放走了。不久，狮子真的被老鼠救了性命。原来狮子被一个猎人抓获，并用绳索把他捆在一棵树上。老鼠听到了他 的哀嚎，走过去咬断绳索，放走了狮子，并说：“你当时嘲笑我，不相信能得到我的报答， 现在可清楚了，老鼠也能报恩。” 这故事说明，时运交替变更，强者也会有需要弱者的时候。
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