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I've puked a few time. My SO loved it and it was a powerful feeling to have someone desire me at what could be seen as my grossest moment, puke in my hair, etc. He cleaned me up and we kept going
If you like struggling and fighting back
Wrastle, and whoever wins ties the other one up
NSFWFemale bits here so this may or may not be relevant, but when I gag hard, I need to pee.
One of the first times I felt the urge, I excused myself to pee. Lover came in while I was sitting on the toilet and without missing too many beats, started face fucking me again.
I peed and came so hard :)
(reading about tantra, those folks say our throat is connected to our pelvis, fwiw)
Lover, who is experienced in bdsm play, has never been into water sports or bathroom play but this totally turned him on - what's not to love when your sub's body is so reactive to yours it loses control?
So maybe, if you can't get your voiding to stop, you can work it in? Just sit on the pot while you get fucked
I think that was the best part. And should be part of the SO30 motto!
Make it so, !
She has past physical abuse issues and I'm somewhat concerned that a line will be crossed or something. She wants rough treatment, but I'm not sure why.
Agree with _toodles - I like it rough too and also have a bit of ugly in my past. In some ways what I like now has nothing to do with it although there is/has been a healing element to wanting and doing, in a safe, trusting, loving, and consensual way, what was once done against my will.
121314Article ()loading...Yes! Glad to see someone pointing this out! In 20+ years of giving (what I think were great) blow jobs, I only recently discovered that gagging and all that spit is something I enjoy.
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More ideas for helping her enjoy the experience too:
Aside from talking/making sounds to her while your cock is in her mouth, touch her! Run your fingers through her hair, hold her hair out of her face, stroke her face, her neck, her breasts, if you can reach them. You can finger her too, if you lay the right way, or 69.
I love kneeling on the floor (on a pillow) or sitting on the edge of the bed while he stands, my face in his hands, controlling how deep he goes and how fast. I never thought I'd enjoy gagging on cock, but er, I love it and I LOVE the thicker more slimy saliva that I cough up, the way my throat shudders around his shaft.
I love how easy eye contact is in those positions too. Oooof. There's nothing hotter than gagging on his cock, my face in his hands, while our eyes are locked on each others. While on the surface it seems like he's completely dominating me, in reality, he's also incredibly vulnerable (with his cock in my mouth). I feel all that - my trust, his trust - coursing through me in those moments and it takes me somewhere deep and primal.
If I lay on the bed with my head hanging upside down over the edge, I can take him in much deeper, but I can't see his face. I love the way his balls rest on my face though
I also love it when he's laying down on his back and I'm kneeling over him. I have long hair and can use that to tease him first.
I have strong oral fixations, so I also love being curled up on my side with him on his facing me and just holding his cock in my mouth, sucking it gently, like a pacifier.
If you'd like her to kneel or sit on the edge of the bed while you stand, it might be helpful to talk to her in such a way to negate whatever it is she's concerned about. I've recently discovered how much I enjoy being submissive, controlled, directed, overtaken - if that's not her cup of tea, use your words to shift the dynamic: &oh baby, you're making me crazy&
Use hands too - squeeze butt cheeks, stroke belly and thighs, play with his taint and, if he's into it, a finger in his ass. If he's large, use your hands on the part of his shaft you can't fit in your mouth while using your mouth/tongue on the upper part of his cock/head. If he likes it, play with his balls - cup them, suck them (gently), lick them.......Mmmmmm
I bet that if you're vocal, she'll enjoy it!
LOL, yeah at the romantic part. I was a drooling, disheveled, bound, slimy mess and it was the most romantic encounter of my life! It cracks me up
Yeah! I love that my story will benefit another lucky lover!
YES! . This seems true to me. And now that he is no longer convinced his desires make him a rapist-in-waiting or a serial killer (apparently both were things he feared ages ago), there's just the basic truth that we want the same thing, and be damned what social conditioning has to say about that!
It's frustrating to me, somewhat, that I can't talk to my close friends about this. They'd question my sanity, my feminism, my....I don't know...but I know they wouldn't get it
My feminism doesn't feel at all conflicted, which is an awesome realization! I want this. I need this. I've never met anyone who was deserving of taking my power in his hands and treasuring it, keeping it safe and that - that's the stripping away you mention - we are, both of us, beautifully matched in our dynamic. Giving the trust that's needed for this to work is something I've craved my whole life - receiving that trust is something he's craved.
A few nights ago, talking on the phone, he said, &we fought because we didn't know how to fuck. Well you did, even then, but I was terrified by what I could sense you'd allow me to do and I was even more horrified that I wanted to do it.&
And it's true - that stripping away has to happen or shit gets clogged in the pipes and it seeps out in really unhealthy ways
What blows my mind is how powerful I feel giving over my power. There were moments when he was behind me, while I was spread across the bed, that I didn't know what would come next, pain or pleasure and in those moments of anticipation I learned something remarkable: they're one in the same (in this particular kind of situation).
I didn't think I would like pain - emotional domination yes, but not discomfort. I think he went extremely easy on me (but he doesn't get off on inflicting great pain either), but it was just enough for my body to learn new ways of feeling, of opening, of giving over/into sensation. I guess in a way the pain allowed for a greater level of mindfucking.
I overthink everything. I need to feel like I control every situation too. What a gift to have that switch turned off. It's the most freeing experience I've ever had.
Thank you so much for your kind words and understanding
Yeah. This.
I don't think there's one answer. It depends...on your child's personality, their environment, previous life-experiences...
Some kids welcome deep conversations, even about embarrassing topics. Some might even be okay with a parent saying, &hey, if you want to look at porn let me know and I'll send you safe links.& Others would be horrified.
That said, there are some &rules& that are important to go over, even if not explicitly about porn or sex, at least with a wink,wink, nudge, nudge in that direction
General digital literacy, internet safety, legality (like sending or receiving nudes from another kid), clearing history or using Incognito if there are younger siblings who share the computer
I &strew& ideas, materials, a link here or there. Sometimes there's conversation around it while other times it's just left around for kid to find
is a great place to start - for both of you
&Strew& conversation too - talk about relationships, sex, sexism, trust, dishonesty, attraction, how love is a chemical reaction. Comment on advertisements, they're a great window into all kinds of conversations
Good times! Good luck
I was there for five days but I'm home now, so we're not physically together right now. But we'll see each other again soon.
By the second day of my visit we both spoke openly about never wanting to be apart again. My heart, my soul, wanted to come home, pack up my life and my kid and drive back to him, but it will take more planning and delicacy than that.
I'm not sure how we'll figure it out, but I'm confident that we will. Nothing has ever felt more right to me in my life. I am his, completely. I just hope my kid loves him too. Everything else is minor navigation compared to that.
Me too, ! Life is a crazy journey. Never would I have imagined this turn, which may well shape the next half of my life
Thanks, ! I spent the next five days wavering in and out of subspace. It quickly came to a point where he could do a few things to me: hand in just the right place on my neck, his lips unmoving on mine, but breathing me in, and I was instantly back in that place, even while we were out in public.
There were hours at a time I couldn't form words or thoughts. Walking around a new city with our story still on my body from the first night - it was a high unlike anything I've experienced (and I've done a lot of drugs). There were times I could feel the seam of my jeans, the arch of my foot in my shoe - every part of my body awakened and open.
It took 20 years to get back here and I never want to leave
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I've always wanted to try it but my wife made a comment once while drunk about being on it with someone else and it's kinda kill the desire to try it
I wouldn't let that deter you. Once we get to a certain age, there's a good chance our partners have done almost everything with someone else!
I've never had two trips resemble each other. It's all about set, setting, and the person you're with.
D'oh! Sorry
- I just realized you weren't OP!
Molly is dehydrating as well, which is another reason to have lots of lube on hand.
Also worth mentioning, I get the same difficult-to-cum experience from 1/2 or even a 1/3 of a typical dose. So there's no need, IME, to trip your face off, if you're not into that or don't want to deal with a harder comedown. I haven't specifically looked for info on &micro dosing,& but I bet it's out there.
And I like taking less because it makes conversation much, much easier. My ex and I could worth through the equivalent of a year's worth of therapy in a few hours. And it was meaningful, lasting, honest/authentic, and remebered conversation.
I know I might get chastised for the suggestion to talk about heavy or even sexual desire stuff while on a substance...the bdsm community for example always suggests negotiations &with your pants on& and sober...and I totally agree that for those kinds of talks, yes, both pants and sobriety are necessary. But MDMA has actual therapeutic qualities and uses and I know I'm not the only one to find smaller doses help couples work through some pretty heavy baggage.
Not sure if you saw my comment below about possibly considering her after-orgasm passivity as a starting place for exploring kinky stuff, but it might be that's a good time to talk about that - not as a negotiation space, but as a &hmmm, this is what I'm experiencing and I don't want to change you, but I want to play with the existent dynamic to make it more exciting for me& maybe?
Yes, Molly.
Which part doesn't sound fun?
It is amazing fun and incredibly bonding, IME. Intense, open and loving conversation as well as powerfully heightened physical sensation. The partners I've had the experience with didn't cum easily while rolling either, so it made for sex without an end-goal - just prolonged exploration coupled with powerful relationship-changing intimacy.
Yeah, I was thinking that too. Booze doesn't slow me down, but MDMA sure does. Sex for hours and hours and not an orgasm in sight. BOTTLES of lube needed because even my normally gushing hole gets dried up.
Totally - the first few times it requires incredible (not so sexy) mental focus. I had to learn the cue, the feelings that led to coming and sometimes, I still came, even without any touching - I had to find that spot before the point of no return.
OP, some more quick (ha!) thoughts:
For me, part of my motivation was to have multiple orgasms. I wanted that &wave& people talk about.
But it sounds like for your partner, it's more about her participation after she cums. Again, that requires communication on your part, but I wonder if you could work in some role playing? Maybe she's submissive? Maybe she'd want to feel like your fuck toy? Would any of that turn you on? How hot is that? You have this body that gushes and writhes from your touch and you can use it to pleasure yourself?
TL;DR: Could you use her passivity as a starting place and build from there?
It's funny you say &pre-kids&-- I think having our kid is what led to me coming so quickly in that sex was so hurried at first. My brain/body learned to cum NOW before baby woke up and I had to unlearn that responce
I can cum really quickly when I'm with someone who knows my body well. With ex-husband, I learned how to edge, and that was incredibly helpful.
Google &edging woman& and &orgasm control/denial& head over to
and search the threads there too.
Basically, you want to stop everything--all touching--when she feels like she's getting close, wait a bit, and then start again. Wash, rinse, repeat.
Have her concentrate on breathing out - the exhale
She can learn how to make her body wait, but she has to want to, which means dear Frogtrainer, a conversation or three are in order.
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